Why does everyone always assume that I'm gay when I am about to have a wife?

I am so sick and tired of people calling me gay and assuming me that I'm gay when I am not really gay. I told them that I'm about to get married to a nice and beautiful vietnamese girl from vietnam and that she is my soon to be my wife but they won't believe me that I'm straight. They said your marriage is a cover up for your gayness, it's not a cover up. I couldn't find a vietnamese girl in the united states on my own to marry me so I had to let my mom ask my aunt to set up with a girl in vietnam to marry and my aunt found me this girl for me. It's not my fault that no vietnamese american girl in the u.s finds me attractive. When I went to vietnam tons of vietnamese girls came up towards me and it was like heaven, only the girls in vietnam wants to marry me. I'm not gay and I also deny the fact that I'm a crossdresser because I'm not either one I'm straight. People on here have done enough damage to my life already, everyone in my town now thinks that I wear red vietnamese dresses. I'm sick and tired of all of these false accusations. I'm getting and I am totally straight. Why does everyone think I'm gay ???? I am not gay I am straight. I think what I might need to do is when I get married I need to get my wife pregnant and have a kid and then everyone will believe me that I'm straight. I'm only attracted to girls aka women so I'm straight.